Who the F*ck You Are
Self-Leadership Journey
15 days to find out who you are and what the hell to do next in just 5 minutes a day!
If you’re starting over after a breakup, divorce, or major life shift…this is where momentum begins.
Clarifies your values, strengths, and next direction
Reveals what’s driving you (and blocking you)
Helps you take the right action instead of staying stuck
Turns journaling into an actual strategy
Takes less than 5 minutes a day
You don’t need more motivation.
You need direction. And this is how you find it.
How it works?
For 15 days, you’ll get one email a day with a short introspection prompt or a task. Each one builds on the last, so by the end of the program, you'll know exactly who you are and what the hell to do next.
By the end, you’ll have your own Next Chapter Roadmap — a fillable template that connects the dots, organizes your insights, and reflects back the bigger picture.
Inside, you’ll map your way forward with:
7 Insight Sections
A 3-week action plan
A powerful identity statement
Your personal “North Star” mantra
The 3 Phases
Phase 1: Rediscover Yourself (Days 1–6)
Reconnect to your values, energy, and identity. Ditch the “shoulds” and find the real you underneath.
Values compass: choose 3–5 core principles to navigate by.
Energy clues: spot what genuinely fuels you; stop forcing what drains you.
What you truly want: surface the real desires.
Unmask the shoulds: remove rules that keep you small.
Draft your mission: simple language for what you do and why.
Role models and identity: who you are becoming, on purpose.
Phase 2: Find What You Want (Days 7–11)
Explore real possibilities, sketch different paths, and get honest about what excites you.
Paths on the table: sketch the viable directions.
Three futures: map 3 versions of your life and feel each from the inside.
Skills and gaps audit: what you already have; what is actually missing.
Not-doing list: deliberate subtractions to protect focus.
Face resistance: name the doubt; choose the reframe.
Phase 3: Do The Damn Thing (Integration, Days 12–15)
Turn insights into action with a copy-paste template. Print it, pin it, or keep it on your screen — your personal compass for the next few weeks.
Strategic snapshot: capture what is now true and where it points.
Look in the mirror: put everything together into one cohesive frame.
North Star + identity statement: language that aligns choices fast.
Your Action Plan: Final synthesis: 3 immediate moves, identity statement, and mantra to anchor the next 4–6 weeks
What you’ll walk away with
✅ Clarity on what actually matters to you now
✅ A short-list of real paths forward (not daydreams)
✅ A personal North Star statement to guide your decisions
✅ A 3-page Action Plan that organizes everything into immediate next steps
✅ The confidence of knowing you’re moving in the right direction
Limited Time Bonuses:
🎁 AI Clarity Tool – “Design Your Next Chapter Like a Main Character”
Have a coach in your pocket, preloaded with the best self-reflection prompts. It learns about you through conversation and offers personalized answers and insight
🎁 Life Audit Worksheet – If you're not doing this every six months you're sleeping on an unfair advantage
Take 1–2 hours to pause, reflect, and redirect. This is your strategy session with yourself.
🚨 1:1 Strategy Call - Get a private 30-minute strategy call with me after Day 6 to keep your momentum going. (Available only for sign-ups on or before November 6th)
All of this for $75.
No subscriptions. No upsells.
Why This Works?
Because it’s not a random reflection, it’s a sequence.
Every day builds toward a decision-making framework, not just nice ideas.
You don’t just journal — you build a plan you can actually use.
Life threw you into a new chapter. Divorce, career shift, relocation, motherhood... Whether you chose it or not, everything’s different now.
Most people just play it by ear: trying to stay positive while constantly putting out fires and drowning in conflicting advice. That’s why they stay stuck.
This self-led program doesn’t hand you motivation or pep talks. It forces you to pause, face yourself, and get unstuck, so you can finally do the damn thing.
Don’t waste another week wondering what to do next.
This is for women starting fresh after a major life change who are ready to move forward with clarity and direction. If you’d rather wait for things to sort themselves out, or think positively without taking action, this program isn’t the right fit.
5–10 minutes. A few days have optional worksheets that may take a little longer.
No. It’s self-paced. If you miss a day, just pick up where you left off.
No. This is a DIY clarity system. If you prefer 1:1 guidance and strategy sessions, contact me for more details.
The investment is $75 for a limited time. That’s less than what you'd typically pay for a babysitter or a night out, and what you get is a strategy you can reuse every time life shifts again.
I’m Mashav, your next-chapter strategist. I’ve rebuilt my life more times than I can count: divorce, relocation, career pivots, and motherhood. Each time, I had to face myself, get clear, and design the way forward. Now I help other women do the same, with clarity, strategy, and no sugar-coating.
